If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of everything positive about that person that you possibly can and enter your interaction from that space. Ignore all the crap that used to drive you up the wall before. You will be amazed at what a change this attitude shift brings about.
More Srikumar Rao quotes :
I am not a big fan of positive thinking. The term suggests that there is something negative that you have to counteract by being positive. That is an artificial duality.Srikumar Rao
Positive thinking is so firmly enshrined in our culture that knocking it is a little like attacking motherhood or apple pie.Srikumar Rao